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"I lOve yOu" - Boy

"I tOO" - Girl

aNd froM here starts the dread in the minds of the loVers thAt one mistake in his/her behaviour can be disasterous. We fear that we will lose our lover. I too loved a girl and instead of enjoying the moment I was in this fear that I will lose her, and due to this I nearly lost her. Yeah whatever we do, it is a constant feeling of dread... Your heart skips whenever she/he is angry. You die many times when you are in love... But then it's worth it also. And in most of the cases, you lose your love due to your love. It's a very pathetic(this word is dedicated to my best friend) feeling. You just like to sink. You start thinking how can you lose her. It's bad, but I think it's a trauma through which everyone goes. But we have to come out of it. Or we will be lost in the sea of dread. Try to love without the dread of love.

Once my friend said"If the other person also loves you then why are you so worried"

But it isn't really like that. It is our brain that shows us the possibilities of losing him/her.

Has anyone loved without dread???

If yes then please tell me...

Please...

It hurtSSS yeAh loving huRtssss

yOu love someone, you care for that person, you protect that person. bUT in the night when you go to sleep you are guilty and you are hurt. You know that you are literally cheating that person by loving him/her.
We have got many secrets in life which we can't tell to anyone. We can't even bear to think about those secrets and when you keep these secrets from your love, you feel guilty. You know that you are cheating a person who can give his/her life for you. But then this is life. You won't agree with me but in your heart you never really want to love. Never. Never. Even the hardest heart knows that it will be cheating someone by simply loving that someone.

That's why I don't agree with Chuck Spezzano whose book says
" If it hurts then it isn't love "

With whom do you agree Chuck or me.
Just tell!!!

wHy dO wE lOveee??? why?????

"I am in love"


Cool if you are in love, then enjoy alone and suffer alone. We see so many break-ups and all that in this small world of ours, our friends' break-ups. But still we go looking for love. Love is not a very complex thing as people say. For me it's just a state in which we are a bit of drunkard and think about a complex organic body again and again. We don't have control on our thoughts. And after all if going by the figures a staggering 97% homo sapiens are never able to get their true love. Do we love to get rejected and even if we get our love don't get me wrong but most of us aren't satisfied from a single love. We need more love. That's it, we look out for love for the whole life. During love, we become stagnant type humans. There is no progress in that period of our lives. People say love is life and finding love is the greatest challenge. I say remaining away from love is the biggest challenge in our life. Why spend your time in impressing your love. I can be wrong. But you can say that we lose more than we gain in love.

What say???

And then why do we cry in loVe??? Why???

I bet that not many people would even think of crying before falling in love...
But then we are humans, we can never learn from other's mistakes


Once I also fell in love...